總是用"打不死的蟑螂"來提醒自己堅忍不拔的民族性
盡管遇到困難挫折 但總可以找到自己的生存可能 繼續努力不懈
這種宣示性的效果 在LSE這幾年還算管用
現在反觀感情可能也是一樣 在一段感情尚未宣判完結之前
想想除了真心誠意以外 還有甚麼是可以努力的
我是打不死的.....
我錯了 這樣只造成了負擔
好好地觀察著對方的步調 找到可能
2010年8月8日 星期日
2010年8月5日 星期四
Fear of Losing
This is what I said to myself: you shall be free from fear, fear of losing. Whatever result that comes, you accept and move on. This is because what really matters probably is the process that you work on. You shall ask yourself would this doing (more or less) enhance the possibility of getting a better outcome before taking every step. If along the way it is yes to all, then we all shall be away from fear and leave the rest to destiny with faith.
Plan is not always meant for change but whether it stays on its course would require effort from man and faith in life. In the end, what matters is how we choose to live at the moment. Live out moments with consciousness and sensation. This goes to my favourite quote: “A few times in my life I’ve had moments of absolute clarity,when for a few brief seconds the silence drowns out the noise and I can feel rather than think, and things seem so sharp and the world seems so fresh. I can never make these moments last. I cling to them, but like everything, they fade. I have lived my life on these moments. They pull me back to the present, and I realize that everything is exactly the way it was meant to be.”
Don’t be afraid of losing.
Plan is not always meant for change but whether it stays on its course would require effort from man and faith in life. In the end, what matters is how we choose to live at the moment. Live out moments with consciousness and sensation. This goes to my favourite quote: “A few times in my life I’ve had moments of absolute clarity,when for a few brief seconds the silence drowns out the noise and I can feel rather than think, and things seem so sharp and the world seems so fresh. I can never make these moments last. I cling to them, but like everything, they fade. I have lived my life on these moments. They pull me back to the present, and I realize that everything is exactly the way it was meant to be.”
Don’t be afraid of losing.
2010年7月24日 星期六
2010年7月22日 星期四
2010年7月21日 星期三
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/15/opinion/15loewenstein.html?_r=1#
This is an article by the pioneer in behaviour economics (BE) to justify to what extent the insights from BE can be applied in designing an effective policy. It is acting more like a complement instead of a substitute to the insights from the traditional economics.
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